This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. I highly recommend it, especially if you think your husband is lying about cheating. We talked about it and he said, that yes she did come over, but they are just frinds. You can love a man, he can be a good man, and he can say he loves you back, support you financially. I doubt he believes me because he said it was still recording but he did not know how to turn it off. I wish this could be shown to all women considering having a relationship with a married man. In some other astronomical event where odds are stacked, I still hold onto that dream we once openly had I want to believe its possible My only weapon and defense is aligning everything I do with remembering my, No Matter What, as far as my goals are concerned. and He tells me Its not anyone you know, Nobody that live heres, and he says hes not telling me something I dont want to know about. TThis IS also deceptive but where the trust, respect, is already broken, I figure its all fair game. while drinking and talking he would blame me for his drinking, he tolde he would leave if i didnt change me, when i felt he needed to change sum things as well. I found all kinda of correspondence between them. His mom died of cancer and the truth came out on her death bed..she lived in fear all their married life. She was also pentecostal and stopped wearing skirts, started wearing make up and cut her hair. I found this out because I read the texts on his phone after observing some weird behavior from him (I noticed him regularly moving his phone away from me or covering it up when he got new texts, and also that he would often make excuses about wanting to stay home so he could clean his house, only to find that it was never any cleaner the next time I would visit!). Feel free to share your stories and suspicions below! Well I think my husband is cheating also he texts other girls I snooped in his phone he told one girl he. He swears that they have no contact anymore and he wants to make it work with me. He cheated and a month later he moved to another city. They just dont know what a fraud he is. She was my friend. Maybe it was the slowing down of drinking? Whatever happens, its ok. Ive had to tell myself this many times because Ive been in a couple very toxic relationships.YOUR WELL BEING IS NOT DEPENDENT ON THIS PERSON!!! I am very familiar with those opinions and philosophies too. His lies are now eating him from the inside out. Sure there was more to it, and i was right. I feel so lost. I have since uncovered lots of other information which proves him and her are guilty as charged! I can get past the junk everywhere and the dogs, but, I cant get past his lack of diligence in his job search and what I believe to be deception and lies to me now. No more! Why arent you guys married, after more than four years together? Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. Almost every man would agree that cheating is wrong. It comes naturally. There have been several other times he has spent time with her without me and my kids and says I need to deal with it or be with someone else. When I confront him about anything, he always has an excuse. Its hard to know if you should confront your husband about lying about cheating, or just accept what he says. Now my gut confronts me again, he went on a short 3day business trip. But i am confused and i doubt hes lying. I told him I dont send those kind of things to my guy friends. The very same day i went back to his house i found him with diferent woman again i left without talking to him. some people cheat because its accessible nothing youve done wrong. He has refused sex with me on multiple occasions. Most but not all! In the past she never referred to me by my name. So I decided to give him a last chance because I have faced too much obstacles in order to get married with him. when slyly confronted about it he played it off like no big deal. There is so much emotional turmoil in your comments, so much confusion, pain, hurt. He used to be home by 420p when he gets off work at 3pm and now hes coming home closer to 7pm. About a month ago I found out about my husbands affair, a couple weeks prior he started to tell me he didnt have feelings for me anymore and that he no longer was in love with..but loved me because I am the mother of his children. May you find guidance and support from other people who have traveled a similar road, who can help you make the right choices about your future. And this second girl, by their chat I would say they consider each other as a friends. On Friday I went to meet him at work, and on my way there he called me and asked if I would meet him by his car. my husband is not showing interest on me. And then you are surprised why I loose myself over a picture. I tried to commit suicide and he acted like he didnt care. Now I am pregnant and I still cant trust and believe him. When we first started off. Laurie .-= Laurie Pawlik-Kienlens last blog post11 Differences in the Way Husbands and Wives Handle Money =-. She tried to throw my husband under the bus. In the end, if youve put your heart in and really tried to make this person happy and he remains unhappy within the relationship and wont participate or communicate, then you are being mistreated and deserve better. If you bluff your partner but they truly aren't cheating on you, you'll look quite foolish. He even wrote that he dreams about her and he is always elated to receive emails from her. Ive been with the same man for almost thirty years, and really do hate to break it to other women, but men cheat. I still kept finding little signs of their contact and all along he was telling me Im crazy. Thank you. i have been married for four years now, my husband cheated on me once.. things change now we worked it out.. but i notice hes always interested in online porn than me..he loves me n i love him very much i told him what is doing hurts me but he wont stop its like hes addicted to it please help!!! 9. Its hidden so he wont see. I ask him and the girl and they both denine it. He isnt. Although lately I have this same gut feeling I had when I was suspecting him of cheating. If you are not married and you know he is cheating dont marry him, have sex with him, or countinue dating him that is stupid. I imagined him pleasuring himself while on the phone with her, uninterrupted in the comfort of his hotel room where he lived for that year. On the streets. My guy went to a destination wedding with his family and there are photos of him consistently with a attractive blonde woman. Thank you for sharing how to know if your husband is cheating. Do something loving for yourself and move on. Hes not even close to the same height/build. Fact is, I simply dont trust any man. i dont know if he has cheated on me or not but when i do ask he tells me no he hasnt but turns around and accuses me of doing it. A few times, late night. He is emotionally detached from me. Ive went on his phone looking for names or whatever but he deletes everything. I left him last week. Recently my husband is visiting Hong Kong. My sister told me that she saw my husband with a classmate of mine 30 yrs ago. I thought my relationship for great until I found out that he was sleeping with someone that he works with. Help? In the end, when it was over, she begged to come backbut for me, that is impossible and crazy. This man has done nothing but bring me down in the 6 1/2 years weve been together. When I was 6 months pregnant he mentioned he was unhappy in our relationship. I didnt want to be living with his parents anymore and he wouldnt be financially ready to move for awhile. (you can see the explenation if you click on my nickname as well..). Almost three years later, he has cheated on me more than once,put his hands on me, and called said things i never thought hed ever say. The study, published recently in the journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour, is the first to look at how demographics, interpersonal factors and sexual personality affect infidelity. What is it for you? Dont ignore it! Ive recently caught him lying to my face multiple times, like yesterday he told me that his going to his friends house to pick something up and going to go get gas, I said okay. Do you have to wait until the lease is up to separate? When hes with me, hes distant. I didnt ask him to deactivate his account that was his decision. While Im in pain he continues to talk to her and other females he continued for another month he stop when he felt like it he did not stop because it hurt me Ive thought about leaving Im learning how to forgive slowly.. but i do not forget.. I married someone that I didnt really know or understand. My prayer for you is that you do not let this man deceive you the way he has deceived other women. And most importantly stop accusing him and telling him everything you know. I dnt think his cheatin on me bt im just feelin so insecure n i dnt know why. M sorry but, I dont spy on anybody so I dont think so! We got married back in 2006 and went on our honeymoon. STay strong! If the woman is so paranoid that her spouse is cheating if he is or not then instead of torching both herself and him realize its time to move on. however when I filed for divorce everything turned against me. 6 Tips, When Your Life Feels Empty and Meaningless Without Love. On the one hand anything Ive brought up hes addressed. Now its been over a month and from the time we came back to his mothers house he was slowly treading away from staying in contact. And no woman should suffer from a man like that. Im a very gorgeous girl, and i feel he is lucky 2 have me but sometimes i feel he is cheating and lying about it. Does he pick fights with you over the little things? Help knowing when to break up, so you can find a healthy relationship. Hes said before he wishes he left his girl friend before asking her to marry him but he wasnt sure if taking that chance of meeting me once would end as he would hope for it to be. My husband and I have been married for 29 years. What does your gut tell you about your husband cheating? Hes no longer that happy spending time with me. He then took it from 2d to 3d visiting many strip clubs and admitting to paying for more than 20 naked lap dances. To learn more from Gary Neuman, readhis bookThe Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It. He came out and told me he apologized said it was only one time and he felt so bad afterwards he didnt know what to do. Most of the questions seem to be coming from women who are in marriages or long term committed relationshipswhat do you think about handling cheating in new relationships? I was married 27 years never thought my husband would had done this. I feel like he is leading a dual life like having two families. With her Facebook page full of selfies with her and other men. That he wants children and I cant give him that. The better you know him, the easier youll spot the signs hes lying about cheating. He got VERY ANGRY and told me off. I dont know if my story helps you at all, its pretty grim. Sexually he changed didnt pay me no attention I felt in my gut he was cheating but he assured me I was crazy my gut never lied in the past. He and this girl stayed friends that whole time, and I was certain they would end up togetherbut they DIDNT. Dating advice for women and men, plus tips for love relationships. I dont have all the answers, but I do have a few tips! ? I recently went to the dr for an infection and I was possatice for chlamydia. I know that sounds harsh, but you know better. I confronted him and he called me a bi**h and later appolgized for it. Anyhow, any man that cheats while his partner is pregnant simply cannot be called a man. The women are also either married or in long term relationships with men whom they love; just as I love my wife. Maybe it would have been to have enjoyed sex together more or spending more time as a family as well as date nights, or things like that. Since then I have lost almost 50 pounds I tried going out with him but its so had because I dont know how to mingle and have a good time so we end up fighting. He was wonderful. He goes out and gets drunk. He keeps being aggressive verbally saying he hates me and that it is my fault that the was unappreciated at home and that is why he was with her. Youre stronger than you know! So, I put my foot down and told him he couldnt talk to her anymore. I know it feels like your world is ending .. back to the women who messaged you she wants your life she is jellouse . When questioned he gets defensive ( although I am persistent so I may be the cause of this) tells me I am imagining things.His family was there and I feel awkward as subtle hints have emerged. When a womans instinctual desires for these things are not being met, she is more likely to stray than a woman who feels secure with her mate. I will say a prayer for all of you.please get away from the ones you are with who are cheating on their spouses I PROMISE you there is someone out there for you who will treat you perfect! Twice that i know of. I feel he had sex with her and didnt want me to know so he made the story up. They shared lovely emails and text messages which my husband always deleted. He said he loved me and he didnt want her, but I think it was because she was married with kids and I think if she hadnt have been he would have been off like a shot. I have been married for 17 yrs and found out about a year and half ago that my husband had two different women emailing him pictures of themselves naked. we have one child together i have two before him and now we have another on the way. I confronted him with this and he got angry and defensive and claims I am paranoid and suspicious. Okay, well here goes. Thats sick and twisted, and it happens all too often! 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